Your Language of Love Matters
- Candy del Carmen
- Feb 13, 2021
- 2 min read
Updated: Nov 18, 2025
We all seek for a happy and fulfilling relationship. Giving and receiving love. But we miss each other's hearts in the process. So most of the time, we end up frustrated and unfulfilled in our relationships.
According to Dr. Chapman, the best-selling author of The 5 Languages of Love, it is often the case that love is there and being expressed, but not in the "language" that the loved one understands and wishes to receive.
He introduced the Five Love Languages namely:
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Receiving Gifts
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
If your love language is more of words of affirmation, offering encouragement will help you to overcome insecurities and greater confidence.
If your language of love is quality time, personal connection and togetherness are important for you.
If your language of love is receiving gifts, it doesn't necessarily mean expensive kinds of stuff but you value the meaning behind gifts.
If your language of love is an act of service, doing something which is helpful to your loved ones will be noticed.
Lastly, if your language of love is physical touch, positive physical contact is important to your emotional health and ways of communicating your love.
The most important thing is that the strong foundation of love comes from self-love. For many, finding the ‘self’ and finding self-love are one and the same. Because we can only love ourselves when we finally find out who we are.
This heart month, I would like to share with you one of the Ebooks from All Love Master Package, SIMPLE SELF-LOVE ( 5 Simple Ways to Be Kind To Yourself Starting Today).
Also the best-selling eBook of John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.
Whatever your love language is, we are all worthy of love.
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